The ‘curse’ of the Sādhu

After offering obeisance to a sādhu, worldly-minded persons often say, “O compassionate one! Please bestow your mercy upon me. I am most poor and fallen. How will my materialistic mentality be removed?”
Such statements by a worldly-minded man are merely words of hypocrisy. In his mind he knows only the acquisition of wealth as gain, and the accumulation of worldly objects as the purpose of life. In his heart, the pride of wealth is constantly awake. There is only a desire to gain prestige. “May my worldly possessions not be diminished by the curse of the sādhus!” – due to fear of this, feigned humility and feigned devotion come and present themselves before the sādhu.
If that sādhu were to bless him by saying, “O sir, may your desire for worldly enjoyment be removed, and may your wealth and followers perish” – then immediately that worldly-minded person would say, “O Sādhu Mahārāja! Please do not bless me in this way! Such a blessing is nothing but a curse! That statement is always harmful!”

Finding Even One Sādhu is Very Rare!

We should not determine that a person is a sādhu merely by seeing a particular dress. Even if a person refrains from gossip and criticism of others, we should not accept him as a sādhu unless we observe the aforementioned characteristics. In the age of Kali, discrimination regarding who is a sādhu is practically disappearing. It is a matter of regret that, seeing anyone’s external dress, we associate him as a sādhu, and thus we ourselves are gradually becoming affected by hypocrisy.
We should always bear this in mind – sādhus are not found in great numbers. Nowadays the number of sādhus has become so small that, even after travelling through many places and searching for a long time, it has become rare to find even one genuine sādhu.

You Do Not Like Honest Devotees

O my heart, you are a great mischief-maker. You do not like the honest devotees. You like to stay with scoundrels. You think imposters are saints. The imposters make you dance. Look, the people in whom you have so much faith and before whose feet you fall are very cruel.

Sādhu-saṅga is Not Rare

Although sādhusaṅga is not attained by those who lack sukṛti, sādhusaṅga is not rare if one tries desperately and makes an endeavour. There are places where there are sādhus in this world, and one can see them only by striving hard.

No Need for Sādhu-saṅga?

There are some people who endeavour to attain the mercy of the Supreme, but whether it is due to the influence of bad impressions or because they rely so much upon themselves, they do not realise the need for sādhu-saṅga and do not try to associate with sādhus. It is nothing more than an indication of being absorbed by māyā, because there is no other way than sādhu-saṅga for a human being floating in the ocean of saṁsāra.

Blah, Blah, Blah!

Going to a sādhu and discussing that, “This place is very hot, that place is good for our health, this gentleman is so nice, how will rice paddy grow there? etc.” – such talks are an illusory aberration, and if we talk all this nonsense, then that is not sādhu-saṅga.

What is Sādhu-saṅga?

What is sādhusaṅga? Simply talking to a sādhu is not saṅga. The word saṅga means ‘love’ or ‘attachment.’

Extreme Unhappiness

What to speak of awarding happiness, ordinary talk causes extreme unhappiness; however, in iṣṭa-goṣṭhī such a thing never takes place.

Śuddha-bhaktas are Rare

Śuddha-bhaktas are rare in this world, and therefore only a few śuddha-bhaktas can be found in any single iṣṭa-goṣṭhī.

Divine Eyes

Sādhus award divine eyes to our heart.

Real Iṣṭa-goṣṭhī

Without the association of śuddha-bhaktas, or pure devotees, there is no question of holding an iṣṭa-goṣṭhī. The word iṣṭa means ‘desired subject,’ and goṣṭhī means ‘assembly.’ These two words combine to form the term iṣṭa-goṣṭhī, which refers to an assembly of sādhus who are devoted to śuddha-bhakti, or the practice of pure devotion. Śuddha-bhaktas are rare in this world, and therefore only a few śuddha-bhaktas can be found in any single iṣṭa-goṣṭhī.

Materialistic Friends

While meeting a materialistic friend, one should speak only what is extremely necessary. At that time, it is better not to exhibit heartfelt love. But if that friend is a proper Vaiṣṇava, then one should accept his association by speaking to him with love.